Sometime we have a loved one in our life and it is not clear exactly what is going on but we sense that something is wrong. Now in a lot of cases this will be hard to determine because it might be substance abuse, drug addiction, or alcoholism that is altering their behavior….but on the other hand we might take this behavior as signs he is cheating on us instead.

For example, someone might stay out late into the night and not come home until long after they should be according to when they get done with work. This would cause us to raise our eyebrows in a lot of cases but at the same time the person might claim to be sitting at the bar for all that time. Either way it is not a great situation but most of us would like to think they are still faithful and just sitting at the bar all that time! At any rate, with enough of this behavior going on eventually people will see fit to find a lawyer.

In some cases it might be even worse and our spouse or loved one might not come home at all for a night or two. If this is the case for you does it really matter what the extent of their addiction is? This is neglectful and abusive in a big way and no one should have to live through this kind of abandonment and torment. It’s not fair to the spouse, regardless of whether or not they are cheating or just out binging on drugs and booze. Either way it is unacceptable and you should stand up for your rights and set some clear boundaries in the relationship.